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el diablo

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bondage frustration
« on: July 11, 2013, 07:29:13 pm »
I dont know if this is the right type of forum to post this, just needing general advice really. Im a young female in a ltr. I love bondage and always fantasise about being tied up and taken advantage of, i particularly like the rope stuff i think its beautiful and highly erotic. My partner does not seem interested however and its left me frustrated and unfufilled :'( im left with just porn t owatch, but i dont know if i can carry on like this. Its not something ive really pushed as i find he makes me feel like im a bit weird when ive brought it up before. I dont want to feel like a freak but alsi feel its good to indulge your parters fantasies or at least trt. Any advice?
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js

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Re: bondage frustration
« Reply #1 on: October 10, 2013, 08:00:42 pm »
Well, in my experience fantasies are never to be lived as a fault. It's often possible to share them with partners and try to live them, at least partially.
I'll always be grateful to the www for letting me explore this world, hae new ideas, increase our fantasies and try to have a better sexual realty life.
Not so much frustration from my point of view...

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Kretschmer

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Re: bondage frustration
« Reply #2 on: October 12, 2013, 03:07:18 pm »
I have also some frustation, when i try to share my love for bondage with my partner. But most time they think it is weird or something like that. And luckily, we have the worldwideweb for our desires. But i understand your trouble, el diablo. The best thing is to begin with a small thing and then increase it.
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backlash

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Re: bondage frustration
« Reply #3 on: November 04, 2013, 11:06:17 pm »
I have to agree with what is previously posted. Start small and if your partner is understanding this is something you enjoy they will come around. You can slowly ramp up and talk about everything and not drop it all on them. Good luck and enjoy.
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jkhouri

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Re: bondage frustration
« Reply #4 on: November 24, 2013, 02:50:13 pm »
Communication is key. Sometimes you have to make compromises in relationships!
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fortitudo

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Re: bondage frustration
« Reply #5 on: January 16, 2014, 05:15:20 pm »
I would mirror those above. Communication is key, speak and see what he thinks about it. I myself shared my love of bondage with my partner and she wasn't 100% on it, but we started small and she has grown to like it almost as much as me, even buying stuff to use!
We looked online together at things to buy, do and learn to do.

Hope that helps!!?
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